A narcissist can be your husband, wife, mother, father, sister, brother, boyfriend, girlfriend, neighbor, boss, church member or anyone you come in contact with. There is endless possibilities of “who” they can be. The important thing to remember is the actions, behaviors are all very similar.

Gaslighting is an attempt to change the truth.

Gaslighting is implanted narratives cloaked in secrecy.

She used all of her skills to charm me. I now know this was narcissistic charm and just a tactic of abuse.