The opposite of love is not rage. The opposite of love is indifference. Love engages all our emotions: Joy is the gift of love. Grief is the price of love. Anger is the force that protects that which is loved. We cannot access the depth of loving ourselves or others without our rage.

Grieving together, we ease each other’s suffering and come to know each other.

You don't need to know people in order to grieve with them. You grieve with them in order to know them.

Unresolved grief inside a person is tragic; unresolved grief inside a nation is catastrophic.