The ability to analyze a situation, realize a solution and actualize a change distinguishes the mature from the miniature minded.

It takes a sterner stuff for a person in love to think straight. Most people fall head over heel in love leaving their minds behind. Love sweeps them off their feet and they stand lopsided, and so is their thinking. They accept the unacceptable in the guise that love is blind. When the reality of matrimony opens their eyes, they are pregnant with regrets.

Looking is one thing, seeing is another. Some only see with their eyes while others see with their minds also. However, inability to see with the mind is the worst kind of blindness.

Have it in mind that you could lose your mind trying to assist someone with a mind of his own if it has not crossed his mind to mind you with an open mind.