There's a couple of different realizations. Perhaps the first realization is Aham Brahmasmi. Then perhaps the following is realized. Before Abraham I AM. Then perhaps the following is realized. Before Brahman ॐ. As such it is realized ॐ. But it doesn't stop here for what really matters is Love. You see. Why does Self (I) perceive itself as diversified? Diversity exists not to be alone. Diversity exists for Companionship. Diversity exist for Love. Love is Terminus Ad Quem.

The cause - loneliness - matters not as much as the purpose - love.

Truth is simple yet purposely complex as in differentiated. Why? So to be able to experience companionship, so to be able to experience friendship, so to be able to love and be loved in return.

The big bang was self induced out of desire; desire to love, desire not to be alone. Forget thus about all this comparison nonsense of the big bang vs the careless whisper. Truth is simple. Self desires love. And yes; at any time there is only one self. So love people, love; love your brains out!

The origin of Life is Self not wanting to be by itSelf. Now I Am certain that there is no division and that diversity exists for Companionship. As such it is correct to note that it's all Good.

The origin of Life is Self. Self experiences itself as itself and calls itself Life. Self perceives itself as Life diversified not to be alone, for Companionship, for Friendship, for Love. As such it is correct to note that Love is the meaning of Life for Life is Self experiencing itself as Life, as Man and as Woman, not to be alone, to Love and Be Loved in return. All this for Love, not to feel alone.

The origin of life is self not wanting to be by itself. The purpose of self companionship, friendship, love.

Spacetime is self engineered for love. Space to embrace.Time for love.