Ideally there should not be a men's movement but a gender transition movement; only the power of the women's movement necessitates the temporary corrective of a men's movement. And this creates a special challenge for men: There are few political movements filled with healthy people, yet few healthy changes have occurred without political movements.

Men may be way behind in creating choices for themselves, but have actually been quiet supporters of the choices women want for themselves.

Laws are made with such attention to protecting women that, if a man's constitutional rights conflict with a woman's protection, his rights disintegrate before her protection disintegrates.

Men are the Rosie-the-Riveters of parenting: They're brought in only when needed, and considered disposable thereafter.

Men will not change as long as women 'marry up.' Men won't change until we have a perspective on how powerless power makes us. A woman cannot help a man change until she has a perspective on how powerless power makes men.

Men are not only women's unpaid bodyguards, they actually pay to be a woman's bodyguard.

Many black men leave because they are financially responsible--not because they are emotionally irresponsible.

Men don't oppress women any more than women oppress men.

We have entered 'The Era of the Three-Option Woman and the No-Option Man.