156 Quotes About Child-sexual-abuse
- Author Jennifer J. Freyd
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At times I am flabbergasted that my memory is considered false and my alcoholic father's memory is considered rational and sane. Am I not believed because I am a woman? If Peter Freyd were a man who lived in my neighborhood during my childhood instead of my father, would he and his wife be so believable? If not, what is it about his status as my father that makes him more credible?
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- Author Laura Hough
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The healing process is best described as a spiral. Survivors go through the stages once, sometimes many times; sometimes in one order, sometimes in another. Each time they hit a stage again, they move up the spiral: they can integrate new information and a broader range of feelings, utilize more resources, take better care of themselves, and make deeper changes.” Allies in Healing by Laura Davis
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- Author Ellen Bass
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... it is possible to heal. It is even possible to thrive. Thriving means more than just an alleviation of symptoms, more than Band-Aids, more than functioning adequately. Thriving means enjoying a feeling of wholeness, satisfaction in your life and work, genuine love and trust in your relationships, pleasure in your body.
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- Author Sue Campbell
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The FMSF achieved prominence partly as a response to increased possibilities for women to institute criminal or civil proceedings that relate to historical abuse, and women do not often take their abusers to court. The foundation's framing of abuse serves an ulterior strategic purpose of constructing a narrative position that isolates the incest survivor in an adversarial setting of interpreter distrust and challenged.
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- Author Christina Enevoldsen
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The fear of abandonment forced me to comply as a child, but I’m not forced to comply anymore. The key people in my life did reject me for telling the truth about my abuse, but I’m not alone. Even if the consequence for telling the truth is rejection from everyone I know, that’s not the same death threat that it was when I was a child. I’m a self-sufficient adult and abandonment no longer means the end of my life.
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#abandonment #survivors #self-sufficiency #moving-on #incest #fear-of-death #dysfunctional-family #dysfunctional-families #controlling-parents #childhood-sexual-abuse #childhood-abuse #child-sexual-abuse-survivor #child-sexual-abuse #child-abuse-survivors #child-abuse-survivor #child-abuse #abusive-parents
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- Author Patti Feuereisen
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Whatever your age, you are the right age to be coming out and telling your truth. Find someone to tell- and tell, tell, tell, until your lungs ache. Tell until you can't tell anymore. It won't take away what happened to you, but it will re-map your life and take away the power from the abuse and the abuser. You are strong and resilient. You are not alone.
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- Author Lailah Gifty Akita
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No human being should be maltreated under any circumstances. We are all wonderful creation of God. May we affectionately love one another.
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#abuse #hopeful-and-encouraging #human-rights #humanity-advice #humanity-and-society #humanity #living-together #hope-for-each-day #love #loving-others #religion-spirituality #religious-beliefs #religious-faith #religious #society-humanity #society-problem #loving-one-another #hope-and-despair #god-s-grace #belief-in-god
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- Author Angel Ploetner
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Shame plays a huge part in why you hate who you are. For me, a girl surrounded by sexual abuse, and being a girl filled with shame, was no fun. It looked like a boy had things much better, and better is what I wanted. I went to sleep dreaming and wishing when I woke up I would be a boy.
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- Author Laura Davis
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Although healing brings a better life, it also threatens to permanently alter life as you’ve known it. Your relationships, your position in the world, even your sense of identity may change. Coping patterns that have served you for a lifetime will be called into question. When you make the commitment to heal, you risk losing much of what is familiar. As a result one part of you may want to heal while another resists change.
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