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It's likely from one of his writings or lectures in the early 20th century, a time when social relationships were crucial for emotional support due to the post-WWI economic crisis and rise of fascist ideologies in Europe.\n\n**The Hidden Insight**\n\nAt first glance, Adler's statement seems to emphasize the importance of empathy in friendships. However, upon closer examination, it reveals that he's not merely advocating for mirroring or superficial understanding. Instead, he's pointing out that true connection involves actively taking on another person's perspective and affective experiences – a dynamic process of intersubjective exchange.\n\n**How to Use This**\n\nTo apply this mindset today, consider adopting the practice of \"empathic immersion\" in your professional relationships: schedule regular check-ins with colleagues or clients where you dedicate time to deeply listening to their concerns, asking clarifying questions, and attempting to recreate their emotional state. By doing so, you'll not only build stronger bonds but also gain a more nuanced understanding of the challenges they face.",{"id":53,"quote_text":54,"author_id":5,"source_id":47,"has_image":22,"author":55,"source":56,"quote_tag":57,"commentary":9},2836665,"A private meaning is in fact no meaning at all. Meaning is only possible in communication: a word which meant something to one person only would really be meaningless. It is the same with our aims and actions; their only meaning is their meaning for others. Every human being strives for significance; but people always make mistakes if they do not see that their whole significance must consist in their contribution to the lives of others. 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