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Spiegel, a contemporary writer and speaker known for her insightful commentary on relationships and marriage, likely wrote or expressed these sentiments in one of her books, interviews, or public talks. As someone who has written extensively about the complexities of romance and commitment, she is well-positioned to share her thoughts on this crucial aspect of marriage.\n\n**The Hidden Insight**\n\nWhat's remarkable about this quote is its nuanced view on romance as a byproduct of hard work and commitment rather than a spontaneous occurrence. This perspective highlights the tension between the idealized notion of romance as a magical spark and the reality that long-term relationships require effort to sustain their emotional intensity.\n\n**How to Use This**\n\nTo apply this mindset in your own life, consider cultivating a sense of anticipation and appreciation for romantic moments by investing time and energy into building a strong foundation with your partner. 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