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And how long would we live apart from others before we began to doubt our existence?",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":29,"quote_text":30,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":31,"source":32,"quote_tag":33,"commentary":9},2987470,"Old age is somewhat like dieting. Every day there is less of us to be observed.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":35,"quote_text":36,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":37,"source":38,"quote_tag":39,"commentary":9},2987465,"Praise requires constant renewal and expansion.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":41,"quote_text":42,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":43,"source":44,"quote_tag":45,"commentary":9},2987453,"Writers are entirely egocentric. To them, few things in their lives have meaning or importance unless they give promise of serving some creative purpose.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":47,"quote_text":48,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":49,"source":50,"quote_tag":51,"commentary":9},2987442,"Talk uses up ideas. Once I have spoken them aloud, they are lost to me, dissipated into the noisy air like smoke. Only if I bury them, like bulbs, in the rich soil of silence do they grow.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":53,"quote_text":54,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":55,"source":56,"quote_tag":57,"commentary":58},2987432,"What others regard as retreat from them or rejection of them is not those things at all but instead a breeding ground for greater friendship, a culture for deeper involvement, eventually, with them.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],"**The Backstory**\nThis quote is likely from Doris Grumbach's personal writings, possibly a letter or journal entry, given its introspective nature and focus on her own experiences with relationships. As an acclaimed author known for her candid portrayals of human connections, Grumbach often explored the complexities of friendships and social interactions in her work.\n\n**The Hidden Insight**\nThe quote reveals a counter-intuitive truth about social withdrawal: what others perceive as rejection or abandonment can actually be a necessary step towards deeper connection. This insight subverts the conventional understanding of \"social success\" as being always on, engaging with everyone at all times.\n\n**How to Use This**\nTo apply this mindset today, consider that sometimes pulling back from a relationship or social circle is not a sign of rejection but rather an opportunity for introspection and eventual re-engagement. 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