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Instead of staying in a relationship that may be holding you back or causing undue stress, practice self-compassion and communicate openly with your partner about the boundaries of your emotions, even if it means ending the relationship altogether.",{"id":51,"quote_text":52,"author_id":5,"source_id":15,"has_image":21,"author":53,"source":54,"quote_tag":55,"commentary":9},3017050,"It’s easier to hate than to hurt.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":57,"quote_text":58,"author_id":5,"source_id":15,"has_image":21,"author":59,"source":60,"quote_tag":61,"commentary":9},3017045,"I can speak the languages of lots of groups and learn others with some ease, but no matter how fluent I am, when I’m not speaking Josie, I am merely acting. We all are when we interact outside of our natural cultures. 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