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We both had their blessing.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[44],{"id":45,"tag":46},4808641,{"id":47,"tag_name":48},12154,"both",{"id":50,"quote_text":51,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":52,"source":53,"quote_tag":54,"commentary":9},1818363,"I always wanted to follow in the footsteps of my maternal grandfather, who was a doctor.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":56,"quote_text":57,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":58,"source":59,"quote_tag":60,"commentary":9},1818351,"I have a Bachelor in medicine, a Bachelor in surgery, and I am a Fellow of the Royal College of Surgeons.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[61],{"id":62,"tag":63},4808622,{"id":64,"tag_name":65},65496,"fellow",{"id":67,"quote_text":68,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":69,"source":70,"quote_tag":71,"commentary":9},1818348,"Diana introduced me to Princes William and Harry. Diana just wanted her sons to know what was happening in her life.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[72],{"id":73,"tag":74},4808609,{"id":75,"tag_name":76},18217,"happening",{"id":78,"quote_text":79,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":80,"source":81,"quote_tag":82,"commentary":9},1818333,"I think Princess Diana enjoyed it here in Pakistan immensely. She had a good time. But she never came to my family home. She came to my home in Lahore instead.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[83],{"id":84,"tag":85},4808603,{"id":86,"tag_name":87},15501,"came",{"id":89,"quote_text":90,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":91,"source":92,"quote_tag":93,"commentary":9},1818320,"Generally, I do not talk about people - family or friends. This is how I am.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[94],{"id":95,"tag":96},4808590,{"id":97,"tag_name":98},86,"family",{"id":100,"quote_text":101,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":102,"source":103,"quote_tag":104,"commentary":110},1818307,"There is no way at all that Diana was mentally unstable. There is nothing wrong with expecting your husband to be faithful and being angry when he isn't. Diana had every reason to believe that Charles and Camilla never stopped seeing each other.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[105],{"id":106,"tag":107},4808576,{"id":108,"tag_name":109},2955,"believe","**The Backstory**\n\nHasnat Khan, a British-Pakistani cardiothoracic surgeon, penned these words in his biography \"Once I Had A Country\" (2011). At the time, Khan's personal life was intertwined with that of Princess Diana, whom he had a secret romance with. The context is significant, as it highlights the societal pressures and expectations placed upon individuals, particularly women, within the British royal family.\n\n**The Hidden Insight**\n\nThe counter-intuitive truth in this quote lies in its subtle defiance against the notion that women are solely responsible for their partner's infidelity. Khan's statement implies that Diana's anger towards Charles' infidelity was not only justified but also a natural response to being betrayed by someone who had promised fidelity. This perspective challenges the traditional narrative of \"crazy ex\" and instead, humanizes the experience of being cheated on.\n\n**How to Use This**\n\nWhen faced with a situation where trust has been broken, remember that your emotional response is not unfounded or unreasonable. It's essential to acknowledge and validate your feelings, rather than suppressing them in an attempt to appear \"strong\" or \"rational.\" By doing so, you can begin the process of healing and reclaiming your agency in the relationship.",{"id":112,"quote_text":113,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":114,"source":115,"quote_tag":116,"commentary":9},1818293,"Really, I am just a guy who likes his profession and travelling and good food, and that is it. I'm no different from you or anyone else.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[117],{"id":118,"tag":119},4808551,{"id":120,"tag_name":121},422,"food",{"currentPage":123,"totalPages":124,"totalItems":8,"itemsPerPage":125},1,2,10]