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This subtle shift in emphasis suggests that Nouwen is highlighting the importance of relational depth over surface-level interactions.\n\n**How to Use This**\n\nIn today's fast-paced, technology-driven world, where we often confuse likes and comments with meaningful connections, Nouwen's insight reminds us that true friendship is about cultivating an unshakeable emotional foundation. To apply this mindset, take time each week to engage in a vulnerable, open-ended conversation with someone you trust, allowing the relationship to unfold organically rather than trying to force it through scheduled activities or social media interactions.",{"id":101,"quote_text":102,"author_id":5,"source_id":38,"has_image":77,"author":103,"source":104,"quote_tag":105,"commentary":9},4018594,"Based or our baptism, all are called to a mystical life, to communion with God. 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