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They are adults and should be free to seek out help for themselves with government interference,",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[76],{"id":77,"tag":78},4541150,{"id":79,"tag_name":80},326,"men",{"id":82,"quote_text":83,"author_id":5,"source_id":50,"has_image":18,"author":84,"source":85,"quote_tag":86,"commentary":9},1546753,"I am just an ordinary Catholic.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[87],{"id":88,"tag":89},4541139,{"id":90,"tag_name":91},3508,"catholic",{"id":93,"quote_text":94,"author_id":5,"source_id":50,"has_image":18,"author":95,"source":96,"quote_tag":97,"commentary":103},1546744,"When men and women fail to form stable marriages, the result is a vast\nexpansion of government attempts to cope with the terrible social needs that result.\nThere is scarcely a dollar that the state and federal government spends on social\nprograms that is not driven, in large part, by family fragmentation: crime, poverty,\ndrug abuse, teen pregnancy, school failure, mental and physical health problems.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[98],{"id":99,"tag":100},4541130,{"id":101,"tag_name":102},95,"marriage","**The Backstory**\n\nMaggie Gallagher, a prominent social conservative and author, likely wrote these words in her book \"The Abolition of Marriage: How We Destroy Lasting Love\" (1996). At the time, she was critiquing the effects of the sexual revolution on family structures. Her work reflects her concern for the erosion of traditional marriage values in American society.\n\n**The Hidden Insight**\n\nGallagher's quote reveals a paradoxical tension between individual freedom and collective responsibility. On one hand, she suggests that the breakdown of stable marriages leads to increased government intervention, implying that personal choices have societal consequences. However, this also implies that individuals are not entirely responsible for their circumstances, as the state must step in to mitigate the effects of family fragmentation.\n\n**How to Use This**\n\nIn applying Gallagher's insight to modern professional and creative lives, consider the ripple effect of your individual decisions on the broader social context. When making choices about work-life balance, relationships, or personal priorities, recognize that you are not isolated from the world around you; your decisions can have far-reaching consequences for yourself and those in your community.",{"currentPage":105,"totalPages":25,"totalItems":8,"itemsPerPage":106},1,10]