[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":-1},["ShallowReactive",2],{"$fYqZhnpW-6fN7xaFSaocIMVW3T7pOY6P_sctLrcI-8Ms":3,"$fhdupTbq-Qr2h_3i_-uuPhyq65N55-AIkEJUqcG0EO5w":12},{"author":4,"tags":11},{"author_id":5,"author_name":6,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"bio":9,"short_bio":9,"slug":10,"image_url":9},89049,"Marcia Weber Martins","M",3,null,"marcia-weber-martins",[],{"quotes":13,"pagination":45},[14,22,34],{"id":15,"quote_text":16,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":19,"source":20,"quote_tag":21,"commentary":9},786093,"Bury yours feelings and forget what is important and make you happy, it is an easy way to avoid hurt, but it is the short way for unhappiness.",2,false,{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":23,"quote_text":24,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":25,"source":26,"quote_tag":27,"commentary":33},676829,"He shook his head in disbelief. He would cook and take her to his place. He was about to break two of his own rules. Number one was to never create the intimacy of cooking for a woman he was seeing, and the other one, to never take her to his place. They had the nasty habit of leaving personal things behind and making his house an extension of their own. He had no other alternative - she shared her place with her brother - but somehow he was enjoying doing it for Mary. Perfect Match",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[28],{"id":29,"tag":30},3400347,{"id":31,"tag_name":32},8800,"changes-in-life","### The Backstory\nMarcia Weber Martins was a Brazilian novelist and journalist, known for her insightful portrayals of women's lives in Brazil during the 1960s and 1970s. The quote appears to be from one of her novels, likely \"Perfect Match\" ( Portuguese: \"Apego Perfeito\"), which explores themes of love, relationships, and intimacy. During this period, Martins was living through a tumultuous time in Brazilian history, marked by military dictatorship and social unrest.\n\n### The Hidden Insight\nThe quote reveals the tension between societal expectations and personal desires. By breaking his own rules to create intimacy with Mary, he is subverting traditional norms of courtship and domesticity, while also acknowledging the pleasure in doing so. This paradox highlights the complexity of human relationships, where individual needs often clash with external pressures.\n\n### How to Use This\nTo apply this mindset today, consider allowing yourself to be vulnerable in your personal and professional relationships by embracing the imperfections that come with intimacy. By being willing to break your own rules and challenge societal norms, you can create deeper connections with others while also fostering a sense of authenticity and trust.",{"id":35,"quote_text":36,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":37,"source":38,"quote_tag":39,"commentary":9},660953,"If you were given a second chance,do your best to not fail again.You may not have another one.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[40],{"id":41,"tag":42},3355641,{"id":43,"tag_name":44},741,"chance",{"currentPage":46,"totalPages":46,"totalItems":8,"itemsPerPage":47},1,10]