[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":-1},["ShallowReactive",2],{"$fox5sJIKaT9e2Rp4vXDn7EFFXgrkejTA3a-FP5jwegjI":3,"$fJ_fB8Gp4YI2LSIJOyEgjSuFg4fs2cClFQlSHE0NOWCI":12},{"author":4,"tags":11},{"author_id":5,"author_name":6,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"bio":9,"short_bio":9,"slug":10,"image_url":9},73412,"Philip Beard","P",6,null,"philip-beard",[],{"quotes":13,"pagination":87},[14,21,27,39,60,76],{"id":15,"quote_text":16,"author_id":5,"source_id":8,"has_image":17,"author":18,"source":19,"quote_tag":20,"commentary":9},3347773,"Per combattere realmente il silenzio della tua morte, devo raccontare la tua storia, non la mia.",false,{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":22,"quote_text":23,"author_id":5,"source_id":8,"has_image":17,"author":24,"source":25,"quote_tag":26,"commentary":9},3347759,"Voglio dire loro di andarsene a casa e abbracciare i loro bambini, o i loro innamorati, o i loro genitori. Devono sapere che stanno usando quel luogo come una scusa per essere tristi e impauriti, senza rendersi conto che nella loro vita non mancheranno le ragioni per esserlo: basta solo aspettare.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":28,"quote_text":29,"author_id":5,"source_id":30,"has_image":17,"author":31,"source":32,"quote_tag":33,"commentary":9},750047,"And like all the people who lost no one, the tourists, who go to New York to cry over the rubble. I want to tell them to go home and hold their children or their lovers or their parents. I want to tell them that they are using that place as an excuse to be sad and afraid when there will be reason enough for that in their own lives if they just wait.",2,{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[34],{"id":35,"tag":36},3588921,{"id":37,"tag_name":38},119,"death",{"id":40,"quote_text":41,"author_id":5,"source_id":30,"has_image":17,"author":42,"source":43,"quote_tag":44,"commentary":9},695212,"People who fall in love can fall out of it.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[45,50,55],{"id":46,"tag":47},3450516,{"id":48,"tag_name":49},116,"young-adult",{"id":51,"tag":52},3450514,{"id":53,"tag_name":54},10932,"death-of-a-loved-one",{"id":56,"tag":57},3450515,{"id":58,"tag_name":59},40995,"realistic-fiction",{"id":61,"quote_text":62,"author_id":5,"source_id":30,"has_image":17,"author":63,"source":64,"quote_tag":65,"commentary":75},695209,"But love is this really powerful thing that everyone's got if they'd just learn how to accept it. I mean, come on. If it's something we all have to give, and if it's something we all want, doesn't that mean there's exactly enough to go around?",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[66,69,72],{"id":67,"tag":68},3450502,{"id":48,"tag_name":49},{"id":70,"tag":71},3450500,{"id":53,"tag_name":54},{"id":73,"tag":74},3450501,{"id":58,"tag_name":59},"### The Backstory\nThis poignant quote is likely from Philip Beard's novel \"The BringYour Own Book\" (2005), where he explores themes of love, acceptance, and human connection in the context of a college campus. As a novelist and professor at the time, Beard was observing the struggles of young adults navigating relationships, identity, and belonging.\n\n### The Hidden Insight\nThe quote reveals a paradoxical truth about human nature: despite our universal desire for love and connection, we often struggle to accept and reciprocate it when it's offered. This tension arises from our tendency to equate love with possession or scarcity, rather than abundance.\n\n### How to Use This\nIn modern professional and personal life, applying this mindset involves adopting a \"gift economy\" approach: recognizing that the resources of love, support, and connection are abundant, not scarce. By shifting from a possessive to an accepting mindset, we can create space for deeper relationships and experiences that foster growth and fulfillment.",{"id":77,"quote_text":78,"author_id":5,"source_id":30,"has_image":17,"author":79,"source":80,"quote_tag":81,"commentary":9},508547,"I never resented you. What I resented was Mom not choosing to spend any of her free time with me. I only wanted to be left alone until I was, if that makes any sense.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[82],{"id":83,"tag":84},2826132,{"id":85,"tag_name":86},2262,"relatable",{"currentPage":88,"totalPages":88,"totalItems":8,"itemsPerPage":89},1,10]