[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":-1},["ShallowReactive",2],{"$fh51fTFM0hrGZ017YMVu8Fie8OLxyGWfXZ4FsqepvKEQ":3,"$f0dHzhM2IjN4P6q9m_hVyTbZhPslwTvIkOQ6Iejg8XK4":20},{"author":4,"tags":11},{"author_id":5,"author_name":6,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"bio":9,"short_bio":9,"slug":10,"image_url":9},1861,"Robert Holden","R",141,null,"robert-holden",[12,16],{"tag_id":13,"tag_name":14,"tag_count":15},18,"happiness",14,{"tag_id":17,"tag_name":18,"tag_count":19},24,"life",5,{"quotes":21,"pagination":85},[22,30,37,43,49,55,61,67,73,79],{"id":23,"quote_text":24,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":27,"source":28,"quote_tag":29,"commentary":9},3386535,"To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.” David Viscott.",6,false,{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":31,"quote_text":32,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":33,"source":34,"quote_tag":35,"commentary":36},3386534,"Those that go searching for love only make manifest their own lovelessness, and the loveless never find love, only the loving find love, and they never have to seek for it. D. H. Lawrence1.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],"**The Backstory**\nD.H. Lawrence, a British novelist and poet, penned these words during his tumultuous life in the early 20th century. At that time, he was deeply immersed in exploring human relationships and the nature of love, often through his literary works. This quote likely stems from his philosophical musings on the subject.\n\n**The Hidden Insight**\nThe profound paradox lies in the notion that one's own emotional state serves as a mirror to the world around them. Those who are consumed by their own sense of inadequacy or \"lovelessness\" inevitably project this onto others, creating a self-fulfilling prophecy that seals their isolation.\n\n**How to Use This**\nTo break free from this cycle, professionals and creatives must cultivate an authentic sense of self-love and acceptance. By acknowledging and addressing one's own vulnerabilities, they can begin to attract genuine relationships and experiences, rather than perpetuating a desperate search for validation.",{"id":38,"quote_text":39,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":40,"source":41,"quote_tag":42,"commentary":9},3386533,"I ask you to consider that the goal of your life is not just to find love; it is to be love. Love is the real work of your life.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":44,"quote_text":45,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":46,"source":47,"quote_tag":48,"commentary":9},3386530,"It also reflects a tendency in our society to focus on negatives. Doctors, for instance, study illness, not health. Business leaders analyse failure, not success. Economists study cost, not value. Philosophers mostly debate original sin, not original blessing.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":50,"quote_text":51,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":52,"source":53,"quote_tag":54,"commentary":9},3386529,"The most damaging erroneous belief about happiness is, of course, that happiness is somewhere else – that is, that it is not with you.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":56,"quote_text":57,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":58,"source":59,"quote_tag":60,"commentary":9},3386527,"Contrary to popular belief, time does not heal, time does not fly, time does not do anything. Time has no consciousness. It does nothing for you. The key to happiness now is what you choose to do with your time right now. Are you, right now, making the most valuable use of your time? This moment is, after all, the time of your life. Your choices are what make each moment.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":62,"quote_text":63,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":64,"source":65,"quote_tag":66,"commentary":9},3386525,"All parents want their children to be happy, but so few parents talk about it.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":68,"quote_text":69,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":70,"source":71,"quote_tag":72,"commentary":9},3386524,"Each of us is called to do something in the name of love, to make sure that humanity comes to understand itself and is able to choose love over fear.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":74,"quote_text":75,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":76,"source":77,"quote_tag":78,"commentary":9},3386521,"You can only be held back by your past if you use it to reject yourself in the present. Your.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":80,"quote_text":81,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":82,"source":83,"quote_tag":84,"commentary":9},3386518,"Some people ‘go’ through life; and other people ‘grow’ through life. Which one are you?",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"currentPage":86,"totalPages":87,"totalItems":8,"itemsPerPage":88},1,15,10]