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He suggests that in a world where individuals are often judged based on external qualities, those who don't fit traditional norms may struggle to form deep relationships.\n\n**How to Use This**\n\nTo apply this insight today, consider the importance of looking beyond superficial characteristics when forming professional or personal connections. By doing so, you can foster deeper relationships and avoid inadvertently excluding others based on societal expectations.",{"id":35,"quote_text":36,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":37,"source":38,"quote_tag":39,"commentary":9},524558,"People take advantage of good people. That's what I mean. 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