[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":-1},["ShallowReactive",2],{"$fhy6Xb1hbIDtVjrdWYSxyNXoJlpMspr8CRhewIXB7iHk":3,"$fm5rSTNZ6ybQIqxqX9f8bgNOHZLNOMEQgZvP1fUnpWPQ":12},{"author":4,"tags":11},{"author_id":5,"author_name":6,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"bio":9,"short_bio":9,"bio_jsonld":9,"slug":10,"image_url":9},138178,"St. Francis","S",6,null,"st-francis",[],{"quotes":13,"pagination":78},[14,27,39,50,56,67],{"id":15,"quote_text":16,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":19,"source":20,"quote_tag":21,"commentary":9},1475532,"Do not wish to be anything except what you are.",4,false,{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[22],{"id":23,"tag":24},4470968,{"id":25,"tag_name":26},156591,"except",{"id":28,"quote_text":29,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":30,"source":31,"quote_tag":32,"commentary":38},1475515,"A quarrel between friends, when made up, adds a new tie to friendship, as experience shows that the callosity formed around a broken bone makes it stronger than before.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[33],{"id":34,"tag":35},4470955,{"id":36,"tag_name":37},290432,"adds","**The Backstory**\nThis poignant reflection is attributed to St. Francis de Sales (1567-1622), a French Catholic bishop and theologian, known for his spiritual guidance in the midst of turmoil. As he navigated the complexities of 17th-century European politics and the Church's internal struggles, he penned numerous letters offering counsel on the art of living with faith and reason.\n\n**The Hidden Insight**\nThe oft-overlooked message here is that conflict can, paradoxically, strengthen relationships when properly resolved. This 'callosity' formed around a broken bond isn't just a metaphor for resilience but also highlights how the process of healing—through confrontation, apology, and reconciliation—can indeed fortify ties between friends.\n\n**How to Use This**\nWhen navigating difficult conversations with colleagues or friends, consider this approach: Instead of avoiding conflict, seek out its resolution as an opportunity to deepen understanding and foster stronger bonds. By acknowledging the 'callosity' that forms from a broken bond, you can deliberately cultivate more resilient relationships through the very process of healing them.",{"id":40,"quote_text":41,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":42,"source":43,"quote_tag":44,"commentary":9},1475504,"What we are looking for is what is looking.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[45],{"id":46,"tag":47},4470943,{"id":48,"tag_name":49},12790,"looking",{"id":51,"quote_text":52,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":53,"source":54,"quote_tag":55,"commentary":9},1475484,"Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":57,"quote_text":58,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":59,"source":60,"quote_tag":61,"commentary":9},1475463,"There are no galley-slaves in the royal vessel of divine love -- every man works his oar voluntarily!",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[62],{"id":63,"tag":64},4470901,{"id":65,"tag_name":66},1805,"divine",{"id":68,"quote_text":69,"author_id":5,"source_id":17,"has_image":18,"author":70,"source":71,"quote_tag":72,"commentary":9},1475455,"Where there is charity and wisdom, there is neither fear nor ignorance. Where there is patience and humility, there is neither anger nor vexation. Where there is poverty and joy, there is neither greed nor avarice. Where there is peace and meditation, there is neither anxiety nor doubt.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[73],{"id":74,"tag":75},4470891,{"id":76,"tag_name":77},402,"anger",{"currentPage":79,"totalPages":79,"totalItems":8,"itemsPerPage":80},1,10]