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Those who succeed are those who make decisions and dare to take risks.",6,false,{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":46,"quote_text":47,"author_id":5,"source_id":40,"has_image":41,"author":48,"source":49,"quote_tag":50,"commentary":9},3481043,"Seorang bijak pernah menceritakan pada diriku kisah mengenai seorang bocah yang berusaha memasukkan sebuah labu besar ke dalam mulut sebuah kendi hingga kemudian kendi itupun pecah. Bertahun-tahun kemudian barulah aku menangkap makna kisah itu pada diri seorang pemalas pesimistis yang mengharap hidupnya lebih berharga dan bahagia tanpa pernah berupaya untuk mengubah dirinya.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":52,"quote_text":53,"author_id":5,"source_id":40,"has_image":41,"author":54,"source":55,"quote_tag":56,"commentary":57},3481042,"Many people feel they don’t have enough love. Feel unloved. 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By saying \"the essence of love is giving and not demanding,\" he subtly suggests that our expectations of love often stem from a desire for validation, which can actually undermine the genuine experience of love itself.\n\n**How to Use This**\n\nIn applying this mindset today, professionals and creatives can benefit from embracing a more expansive understanding of love in their personal and professional relationships. By shifting focus from receiving love or recognition to giving it freely, they can cultivate deeper connections with others and foster an environment where both parties can grow and thrive without expectation of reward or reciprocity.",{"id":59,"quote_text":60,"author_id":5,"source_id":40,"has_image":41,"author":61,"source":62,"quote_tag":63,"commentary":9},3481031,"In life, I believe there are no coincidences. Everything happens for one reason or more. Everyone headed for their respective destiny. On what they choose. On what they do. Often not what they want. 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Kebijaksanaan seseorang tidak bergantung pada seberapa banyak yang mungkin ia dapatkan, melainkan pada seberapa banyak yang mungkin ia berikan.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":89,"quote_text":90,"author_id":5,"source_id":40,"has_image":41,"author":91,"source":92,"quote_tag":93,"commentary":9},3480971,"Apa yang membuat manusia merasa terkucil, bukanlah penerimaan atau penolakan dunia melainkan karena kekerdilan jiwanya sendiri.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":95,"quote_text":96,"author_id":5,"source_id":40,"has_image":41,"author":97,"source":98,"quote_tag":99,"commentary":9},3480965,"Apalah arti imanmu, kalau engkau masih mencaci, memaki dan bahkan menghujat keimanan dan keyakinan orang lain.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"currentPage":101,"totalPages":102,"totalItems":8,"itemsPerPage":103},1,20,10]