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And his name was Revenge. “Reunited and it feels so goooooood,” I sang out the open truck window as we flew over The Causeway.",6,false,{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":31,"quote_text":32,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":33,"source":34,"quote_tag":35,"commentary":9},3462073,"Fear shouldn’t be involved in faith. Being a decent human only because you’re afraid of what will happen to you still makes you a bad person, just a bad one pretending to be a good one.",{"id":5,"author_name":6,"slug":10,"author_name_first_letter":7,"article_count":8,"image_url":9},{},[],{"id":37,"quote_text":38,"author_id":5,"source_id":25,"has_image":26,"author":39,"source":40,"quote_tag":41,"commentary":9},3462072,"I have learned in my life that there are two kinds of people. The weak and the strong. Those who are truly strong try and lift others to make them feel just as strong. 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Frazier is reminiscent of her tumultuous past, marked by struggles with addiction and personal loss. Born in 1975 in South Carolina, Frazier's life was a testament to resilience and the human capacity for growth. As she navigated her early years, she found solace in writing, laying the groundwork for her future literary success.\n\n**The Hidden Insight**\nAt first glance, this quote seems to be about the idealized notion of romantic love. However, upon closer inspection, it reveals a profound counter-intuitive truth: that true love is not about seeking admiration or a hero figure but rather about surrendering one's ego and becoming a source of strength for another person.\n\n**How to Use This**\nIn today's self-obsessed culture, this quote serves as a poignant reminder that genuine connections require us to move beyond our own needs and desires. 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