22 Quotes by Xandria Ooi

Its not just changing our minds - it's changing what we consider to be real.

A bad day is still a good day when we take actions, no matter how small, to live with joy. Then our good days don't happen by chance, they happen by design.

Everyone loves being her friend— to the point that every one of her male friends has a crush on her— because we are all drawn toward the sun.

When there are no labels and no judgement, there is only logic, sense, compassion, kindness, and patience— all of which are tools to helping someone change positively.

When we read or listen to something inspiring, it is normal to wish that our partner, or our colleague, or our sister, or our mother-in-law can also read or listen to the same thing. We wish for them to have the same insights and realizations that we have so that they, too, can work on their own expectations and judgments.

When we are working on ourselves, there's often a strong desire to want the other person in our life to also work on themself.

If we keep being negatively affected by a family member or friend and we need them to change, it is time to work on our own triggers and take responsibility for our own happiness.

In life, it is a certainty that we will meet people whom we find difficult or challenging to handle. Sometimes it's people at work or strangers we meet who upset us. Other times it is our own family and friends who challenge us— they can push our buttons and test us with the things they say and do.

It is when we are ok being alone that we draw the best and most wonderful people into our lives— it's ironic that when we don't need love or people to make s happy that we are at our most attractive.