Problem does not lie in being a husband; the problem is with acting as a husband (being bossy).

For men, women are their ‘counter weights’ and when that is not enough, their daughters are their ‘counter weights.’ One can’t do without a counter weight. Otherwise, he will fall over.

There is a huge college about how men and women interact with each other after marriage. But people get married without learning.

In marriage, at home and everywhere else, one is to remain superfluous. That is where people go in deep into; that is called the worldly life (sansaar).

Illusion (maya) makes one take birth, illusion makes one get married and illusion also makes one die. But here the condition is that it is not the reign of illusion. It is your own reign. It cannot happen unless you wish for it. Illusion gives the result (effect) of what you had consented to in your past life.

Marriage results in two possibilities: sometimes it results in prosperity, sometimes it results in destruction.