7 Quotes by Dr. Dennis Cogswell

One does not change a feeling by focusing on that feelings. One changes a feeling by changing one's behaviors and or one's thoughts

• Parallel monologues are often what people offer each other when they are in the same place as another but not with another.•

When I have too much information or too many choices, I often get confused.• When one wants to encourage another to learn what ”I know that you don’t know,” encourage them to engage in deep thought on a topic you suggest. Deep thought is a positive activity that doesn’t blame and results in both a thinking process and outputs/outcomes that are positive.

Much of human communication is a monologue delivered to anyone who will listen. A real dialogue allows many to express and has the chance of leading to more discovery.•

My wife thinks I talk too much------probably.

I have found that of the Seven Dwarfs, Six are not Happy.

We like to think that we are thinking people. We are largely not. In human communication feelings always trump thinking and values trumps everything.