2 Quotes by Harville Hendrix;Helen Hunt

Tvrdim da, kako bismo se osjećali cjelovitima, potpuno živima, ljudskim bićima, i zato da zaliječimo rane koje nosimo iz djetinjstva, moramo ostvariti vezu. To zvuči prilično dramatično, ali vjerujem da je duboko istinito. Naša ljudska priroda potrebe, bez obzira kako mi to racionalizirali ili prilagođavali, ne može biti zanijekana.

Negativity is any thought, word, or deed that tells your partner, “You’re not OK when you think what you think or act the way that you act.” In essence, you are rejecting your partner’s “otherness.” We sometimes feel the need to negate our partners when they do or say something that makes us uncomfortable. Usually, they are just being themselves. But from our point of view, they are threatening an image that we have of them, or they are failing to meet an unspoken need of our own.