2 Quotes by John Gottman and Nan Silver

Working briefly on your marriage every day will do more for your health and longevity than working out at a health club

What can make a marriage work is surprisingly simple.Happily married couple aren't smarter, richer or more psychologically astute than others. But in their day-to-day lives, they have hit upon a dynamic that keeps their negative thoughts and feelings about each other (which all couple have) from overwhelming their positive ones. They have what i call an emotionally intelligent marriage.