10 Quotes by Megan Mayhew Bergman

I knew I was waiting for someone I didn't understand.

Worrying about parents is a waste of time. It’s your life. Let’s have a martini.

Mothers, I believe, intoxicate us. We idolize them and take them for granted. We hate them and blame them and exalt them more thoroughly than anyone else in our lives. We sift through the evidence of their love, reassure ourselves of their affection and its biological genesis. We can steal and lie and leave and they will love us.

Imagine: you could say nothing, do nothing, eat nothing, touch nothing, love nothing without the other knowing.

I want to mother the world, I thought. I have so much love.Then—I have no business being a mother. I am a selfish woman.Then—I can do this. Millions of women have been mothers.Then—I feel very alone. I do not know what I'm capable of.

Nothing has topped the way men shake her hand and look her in the eye, what it’s like to call a man chickenshit to his face and get away with it, to mean it, to feel free and dominant and in control of your life.

Maybe the world had been bad to its great and unusual women. Maybe there wasn’t a worthy place for the female hero to live out her golden years, to be celebrated as the men had been celebrated, to take from that celebration what she needed to survive.

I’m hungry for you. Old you, new you.

We are, I think, eager to show mettle we don’t yet have.