1,304 Quotes by Shannon L. Alder

Never allow yourself to become a choice in any relationship. The moment you do is when you have reduced your loved one's affections to a daily biological question: Should I take a dump here or wait till I get home?

The question isn't who will be with me in life, rather how will I create the ending I am proud of?

You have two choices in life: Live the life you want or live the life of acceptance.

Learn to be a responder, not a reactor.

If you have to make a daily choice to be in a relationship then you are married to the past, not the person.

Even the smallest amount of light can push back the shadows.

You can ignore your heart and mind, but it will always find its way home.

God will shout during your storms, whisper during your sunshine and sing during the rarest rainbows you will encounter.

You will know it is love not when you think about them all the time or want to be with them, but when you worry about them and you want their approval and happiness.