Some things will never be okay.

That either (a) she uses children to hide her real adult emotions, or (b) she is still a child herself.

Some thinks will never be okay.

I'll remind you of that someday , Maura says. "when you're married to a man who once looked into your eyes and promised to forsake all others. I'll remind of that after you've just had his baby and you have postpartum depression and feel as fat as cow and you are pumping milk into a plastic containers in the middle of the night while he's running around with some twenty-two-years old named Lissette. I'll remind you of that. Maura to Jess.

A son is a son 'til he gets a wife, but a daughter is a daughter all her life.