3,535 Quotes About Self-improvement

To be without the relationship, that is to be alone with oneself, can be experienced as worse than being in the greatest pain the relationship produces because to be alone means to feel the stirrings of the great pain from the past combined with that of the present.

It has already been noted that children in dysfunctional families feel responsible for their family's problems and also for solving them. There are basically three ways in which children attempt to save their families: by being invisible, ,by being bad, or by being good.

We all tend to believe that suffering is a mark of true love, that to refuse to suffer is selfish, and that if a man has a problem then a woman should help him change.

One of the implications of letting go of managing and controlling others is that you must relinquish the identity of being helpful, but ironically, that very act of letting go is frequently the single most helpful thing you can do for the one you love. The identity of being helpful is an ego trip, if you really want to be helpful let go of his problems and help yourself.

While you were busy thinking it was impossible, I was busy inventing the possibility.

The desire for sexual expression is inborn and natural. The desire cannot, and should not be submerged or eliminated. But it should be given an outlet through forms of expression which enrich the body, mind, and spirit of man.

The more you fail, the more you learn, and the more you learn, the more you grow.

You need to just let go of some relationships.Look beyond the *physical*No one can take u up or bring u down without your consent.Don't always be at the receiving or giving end. True friendship is symbiotic.

In love I found more of humanity than in the violent aggression of erratic behaviour that plagues me; to love is to live, may we all do so.