17 Quotes by Darlene Lancer

Abundance is the truth and the remedy.Whatever your loss or despair,Love resides not in the past nor the future.It dwells untapped within you and all around you – now.Connect with its unstoppable, ever-flowing and eternal, creative force. God is always present and joy always available.

When we let go of our reactions and detach from other people's moods, actions, and words, we take back our power. Instead of reactors, we become self-determined actors in our lives. We take charge of ourselves and decide how we act in that moment and every moment, skyrocketing our self-esteem

Loss of a relationship is painful, but if you lose yourself in a relationship, when it ends, it's devastating, because you are lost.

Low self-esteem is like a natural and beautiful garden that's been invaded by weeds from unhealthy relationships. In recovery we pull the weeds, fertilize the soil, sow new seeds, and nourish our garden with water and sunlight.

You cannot make someone love you.You cannot make yourself love someone.You cannot choose whom to love.You cannot stop yourself from loving. But,You can learn to love yourself;You can grow in acceptance;You can choose whom you see, and you can gradually let go.

Authenticity heals. It's real, but messy.

Don't be a victim of your thoughts.

Don't live life like an apology. Be yourself unapologetically.

Allowing bad behavior rewards it. Behavior rewarded is repeated. Don't wait for your anger to confront.From "How to Be Assertive