64 Quotes by David W. Earle LPC- Love is Not Enough

Boundary violations are deeply experienced.

People build defenses around a weakness, not around strength. Where self-esteem is strong, a defense is unnecessary.

If we want to improve, first we have to recognize our own maladaptive coping skills, called codependency, then change.

Chaos limits the free-flow of love and becomes a roadblock to what family members want most and sadly, it becomes the normal for the family.

If no one has boundaries…how can there be any transgression?

When someone obtains peace and serenity, this shines a bright spotlight on others’ own unhappiness making their discomfort even more apparent.

With improved coping skills forged through my midlife crisis, I now listen first and do not control, and I allow these now adult children to come to their own conclusions about what they want for their lives.

Codependency is a learned set of behaviors, thought processes, and habits. When combined together, they fit a very loose definition. All people exhibit these traits to some degree, but some of us allow them to dictate our relationships with others and ourselves.

Children naturally believe without question and absorb knowledge at an incredible rate; since there is no other frame of reference; they believe their parental reality, true or false.