Grieving is an expression of gratitude, and that expression doesn't have to be rushed.

Adversity is neither friend nor foe. It is a common acquaintance that is desired less and rewarded most when embraced.

Adversity is neither friend nor foe. It is a common acquaintance whose presence is least desired, but most rewarding when embraced."- Carolyn Wells, Start Again, Inspiration from the Sunny Side of Adversity