I want to show it’s possible to be happy and enjoy life, even if things seem awful. Did you know that, after a few years, lottery winners go back to the exact same levels of happiness as before they won? And people in serious accidents do, too, once they’ve adjusted to their changed lives? Happiness is a state of mind, Annie.

I think we should all live as if we are dying too – because we are, make no mistake. We should live as if we’re dying at some unspecified but possibly quite soon time. We can’t expect every day to be happy, and there’ll always be sickness and heartache and sadness, but we should never put up with a sad or a boring or a depressing day, just for the sake of it. None of us have time for that, whether we have a hundred days left or a hundred thousand.

It’s not about beauty,’ Polly lectured. ‘There’s hundreds of different ways to look amazing. It’s just about caring for yourself. If your hair is all greasy and your hands are sore and cracked, how can you feel good?

How about a hundred days of doing our best to be alive – even if it’s sad, or ordinary, and we want to cry most of the time? That’s what living is, I think. Letting it all in. The happy days, the sad days, the angry days. Being awake to it.

Because. Cupcakes make everything a little better. Except for type 2 diabetes, I guess.

Life isn’t about avoiding the storm; it’s about learning to dance in the rain. Where’s your sense of adventure?

You can’t always pinpoint the precise moment that your life goes wrong. Most of the time it creeps up on you, year by year, moment by moment, until one day you look around and realise you’re so far from who you used to be you don’t even feel like the same person. It’s usually a gradual collapse, sneaking – a stone there, a pebble here; a slow erosion of who you are, bit by bit, piece by piece.

I want to show it's possible to be happy and enjoy life, even if things seem awful. Did you know that, after a few years, lottery winners go back to the exact same levels of happiness as before they won? And people in serious accidents do, too, once they've adjusted to their changed lives? Happiness is a state of mind, Annie.

There was no one like her on the whole of the planet, no one who had ever lived or ever would. There was not a single other person with her fingerprints, with her memories, with the blood beating in her veins. She was herself, and she was alive right now, despite everything.

You showed me that when something is really shit, it's ok to be sad. It's not a disease you have to cure. You can just... be sad.