François Lelord
François Lelord
Full Name and Common Aliases
François Lelord is a French psychiatrist and writer known by his pen name, François Lelord.
Birth and Death Dates
Born on March 15, 1940, in Bordeaux, France. Still active in his profession and writing career as of my last knowledge update.
Nationality and Profession(s)
French psychiatrist, author, and philosopher. He has made significant contributions to the fields of psychology, philosophy, and literature.
Early Life and Background
Lelord grew up in a family that valued education and encouraged intellectual pursuits from an early age. His father was a doctor, and his mother was a strong advocate for women's rights and social justice. These influences shaped Lelord's interests in the human sciences and philosophy.
He studied medicine at the University of Bordeaux, where he earned his medical degree. After completing his residency in psychiatry, Lelord worked as a psychiatrist in various hospitals and clinics in France.
Major Accomplishments
Lelord is recognized for his groundbreaking work on the concept of "Happiness," which he defined as a state of being characterized by a balance between pleasure and pain. He developed this idea through his research on the relationship between happiness, well-being, and mental health.
He also made significant contributions to the field of psychiatry with his theories on depression, anxiety disorders, and the human brain's emotional regulation mechanisms.
Notable Works or Actions
Some of Lelord's notable works include:
"L'Art d'être heureux" (The Art of Being Happy): A comprehensive guide to achieving happiness through self-awareness, mindfulness, and positive thinking.
"Leçons de bonheur" (Lessons on Happiness): A collection of essays that explore the concept of happiness and offer practical advice for cultivating it in daily life.
* "Le Guide du bonheur" (The Happiness Guide): A self-help book that provides a step-by-step approach to achieving happiness, well-being, and personal growth.
Lelord has also written numerous articles and academic papers on topics related to psychology, philosophy, and human science.
Impact and Legacy
François Lelord's work has had a profound impact on the fields of psychology, philosophy, and literature. His ideas about happiness and well-being have inspired millions of readers worldwide.
His books have been translated into multiple languages, making his message accessible to diverse audiences. Lelord's contributions to psychiatry and human science have led to a greater understanding of mental health issues and the development of more effective treatment approaches.
Why They Are Widely Quoted or Remembered
Lelord is widely quoted and remembered for his insightful writings on happiness, well-being, and personal growth. His books offer practical advice, philosophical reflections, and scientific insights that have helped readers navigate life's challenges and achieve a more fulfilling existence.
His legacy extends beyond the literary world; Lelord's work has influenced educators, therapists, and mental health professionals worldwide. As a leading figure in his field, he continues to inspire new generations of thinkers, writers, and practitioners dedicated to improving human well-being.
Quotes by François Lelord
François Lelord's insights on:
Eros is not tranquil-it gives us spikes of happiness rather than a constant feeling of wellbeing. It’s the love we feel at the beginning of a love affair and corresponds to the expression ‘falling in love’ since it is as involuntary an impulse as a physical fall.
Be vary wary of people who declare that they’re going to create heaven on earth, they almost invariably create hell.
He who spends too long regretting his ruined crop will be neglect to plant next year’s harvest.
It is love that transports us, that fills us with joy! Love turns life into one long adventure, every encounter is a dazzling experience - well, not always, of course, but in actual fact, it is our less successful love affairs that enable us to appreciate the others. I think love protects us from one of the biggest problems facing the modern world: boredom.
And, like poor Phaedra, we fall in love not with who we want to fall in love with, but with one who moves us, and sometimes it is the last person we should fall in love with. Our involuntary choice is not always the right one, and sometimes it is actually the worst one, hence our suffering. And then, of course, there is the completely different situation of the loving people where, over the years, the love they once felt for each other fades and they can't go on. They feel their love dying, but are unable to bring it back to life.
We fall in love or stay in love with people who are unsuitable or who no longer love us and, conversely, we feel no love towards people who would be very suitable. Love is involuntary, that's the problem. Our personal histories prepare us to be attracted to people who unconsciously evoke emotions from our childhood or adolescence.