The challenge is not to be perfect. It's to be whole.

I need someone to be there 100% of the time. He thinks that's love. It's not love - it's babysitting.

An exercise outfit helps because it sets this time apart from the rest of your day and makes it matter more

I am able to talk about my life in a way that helps other women - and men, but mostly women - understand their own life. I feel real proud of that. And then the fact that my children are okay. You know, you're only as happy as your least happy child. So if your kids aren't okay, you're not good.

I think feminism is about the spirit.

I was raised in the '50s. I was taught by my father that how I looked was all that mattered, frankly.

My love life is wonderful.

So much conspires to silence us – because our truths are inherently subversive.

My identity depended on men for so long. You can be successful and still have the feeling that if you’re not with a man you don’t exist.

If you’re ever in a situation where you’re not getting served or you can’t get what you need, just cry.