Theodore Isaac Rubin
Theodore Isaac Rubin
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Full Name and Common Aliases
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Theodore Isaac Rubin was an American psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, and author known for his work on human relationships and mental health.
Birth and Death Dates
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Born: June 16, 1923
Died: September 26, 2000
Nationality and Profession(s)
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Nationality: American
Profession(s): Psychiatrist, Psychoanalyst, Author
Theodore Isaac Rubin was a renowned psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who made significant contributions to the field of mental health. His work focused on human relationships, emotional intelligence, and the complexities of the human mind.
Early Life and Background
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Rubin was born in New York City to Jewish immigrant parents. Growing up in an environment that valued education and intellectual pursuits, he developed a strong interest in psychology and philosophy from an early age. He pursued his passion for psychology at Columbia University, where he earned his medical degree and began his career as a psychiatrist.
Major Accomplishments
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Rubin's work had a profound impact on the field of psychiatry and psychoanalysis. Some of his notable accomplishments include:
Developing the concept of "emotional isolation," which describes the phenomenon of feeling disconnected from others despite being physically present.
Creating the "Emotionally Focused Therapy" approach, a form of couples therapy that focuses on improving emotional connection between partners.
* Authoring several books on human relationships and mental health, including "The Angry Book" and "Coming Out: The Long Road to Acceptance."
Notable Works or Actions
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Rubin's writing and research emphasized the importance of empathy, understanding, and communication in building strong relationships. His work was influential in shaping modern psychoanalytic thought and continues to be studied by professionals today.
Impact and Legacy
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Theodore Isaac Rubin's contributions to psychiatry and psychoanalysis have had a lasting impact on our understanding of human emotions and relationships. His innovative approaches to therapy and his emphasis on emotional intelligence have helped countless individuals build stronger, more meaningful connections with others.
Why They Are Widely Quoted or Remembered
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Rubin's work continues to be widely quoted and referenced due to its relevance and importance in the fields of psychology, sociology, and education. His insightful writings and groundbreaking research have made a lasting impact on our understanding of human relationships and emotional intelligence.
Quotes by Theodore Isaac Rubin

We can’t start over again, and it wouldn’t “be perfect” if we could. We can only continue.

There are a great many people in our society who are happy, but since they don’t know they’re happy, they’re not happy.

I must learn to love the fool in me – the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries. It alone protects me against that utterly self-controlled, masterful tyrant whom I also harbor and who would rob me of my human aliveness, humility, and dignity but for my Fool.

The artist is a receptacle for emotions that come from all over the place: from the sky, from the earth, from a scrap of paper, from a passing shape, from a spider’s web. The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem.

Have you considered that if you don’t make waves, nobody including yourself will know that you are alive?

I must learn to love the fool in me the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries.


There are a great many people in our society who are happy, but since they don't know they're happy, they're not happy.

The process of writing a book is infinitely more important than the book that is completed as a result of the writing, let alone the success or failure that book may have after it is written . . . the book is merely a symbol of the writing. In writing the book, I am living. I am growing. I am tapping myself. I am changing. The process is the product.
